The Break Up Break Down

When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/abby-murphy5/support

21:25:21 2022-11-22
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21:25:40 2022-11-17
Wanna be featured on our Thanksgiving special? Tell us what relationship lesson you're thankful for: https://anchor.fm/abby-murphy5/message - Abby and Justin chat about this weeks episode and talk about relationships ending out of nowhere, introducing you...
21:24:53 2022-11-15
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21:16:02 2022-11-10
PODCAST MERCH (OPEN UNTIL NOV 14): https://order.universitytees.com/bird_banks/99778/signups/new - Coworker Justin joins Abby this week to react to S2E15. They talk about how upbringing may affect your relationship, the sliding scale of compatibility, and...
21:29:42 2022-11-08
Support SAFE Shelter in Savannah, GA: https://safeshelter.org/donate/ - Podcast Merch! (link closes Nov. 14): https://order.universitytees.com/bird_banks/99778/signups/new - Follow the podcast!  - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemu... -...
21:19:56 2022-11-03
PODCAST MERCH (OPEN UNTIL NOV 14): https://order.universitytees.com/bird_banks/99778/signups/new - Coworker Justin joins Abby this week to react to S2E14. They talk about getting back together after breaking up, the rules of "going on a break", friends he...
21:35:50 2022-11-01
Support The Bridge in Houston, TX: https://tbotw.org/support-us/ - PODCAST MERCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!: https://order.universitytees.com/bird_banks/99778/signups/new - Submit a reaction for this week's Bonus Episode: https://anchor.fm/abby-murphy5/message -...
21:25:08 2022-10-27
[SCROLL FOR CW] - LCSW Kat Schneider joins Abby at the end of this episode to talk about what it was like being a part of a religious cult! Kat also explains the mental health side of why people join, choose to stay, and some of the complications of leavi...
21:24:02 2022-10-25
[SCROLL FOR CW] Support WEAVE in Sacramento, CA: https://interland3.donorperfect.net/weblink/WebLink.aspx?name=weave&id=265 - BREAK DOWN BONUS AUDIO REACTION: https://anchor.fm/abby-murphy5/message - Follow the podcast!  - Abby's IG: https://www....
21:25:55 2022-10-20
Coworker Justin hops on another episode to talk about this week's episode! We'll react to the episode, talk about the significance of engagement/marriage, and share the craziest thing we've done to get over an ex! Also!!!! In honor of Midnights coming out...
21:35:26 2022-10-18
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21:17:39 2022-10-13
Who knew Coworker Justin was such a casanova!! We're talking about the grey areas in friendships, how different situations change friendship dynamics, and why we tend to prioritize love interests over our friends. - Follow the podcasts! - Abby's IG: https...
21:33:08 2022-10-11
Support Family Rescue in Chicago, IL: https://familyrescueinc.org/donate/ - TELL ME WHAT TAYLOR SWIFT SONG RELATES TO YOUR BREAK UP AND WHY (AUDIO SUBMISSION): https://anchor.fm/abby-murphy5/message - Follow the podcast!  - Abby's IG: https://www.ins...
21:19:57 2022-10-06
[SCROLL FOR CW]:  We're diving deeper into the conversation surrounding domestic violence and verbal abuse on today's break down. LCSW Amethyst St. Thomas came on to react to this week's main episode and help us understand why victims choose to stay in a...
21:25:09 2022-10-04
[SCROLL FOR CW] Support the ACT Emergency Shelter in Ft. Myers, FL: https://actabuse.com/giving/ - Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 OR Text START to 88788 - Domestic Violence Support: https://www.thehotline.org/   Follow the podcast! - Abby'...
21:16:06 2022-09-29
Do you need help moving on from an ex? Do you feel like you still need closure? Abby and Justin talk about why it's so hard to get over them (and tell you what to do about it). Plus they react to this week's main episode and share stories about families/f...
21:24:12 2022-09-27
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21:11:49 2022-09-22
TikTok's @the.marchie joins Abby to talk about becoming women's rights and wrongs activists following this week's episode!!! They talk about the grey areas of getting even after a break up and making dating safer as a woman. Tune in for lots of laughs and...
21:24:33 2022-09-20
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21:27:40 2022-09-15
What's the PETTIEST thing you've done post-break up? We asked, you answered on IG and Spotify. Lexi & Coworker Justin join Abby to talk about their own petty break ups and read through some responses from the Spotify and IG questionnaire. Oh, and Abby...
21:27:44 2022-09-13
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21:22:31 2022-09-08
Coworker Justin joins Abby this week to talk about getting along with your significant other's families, bringing your "baggage" into a new relationship, and debate on whether or not the BF's mom posted that FB photo on purpose!!! - Follow the podcasts! -...
21:27:25 2022-09-06
[CHECK CW] Support Mosaic Family Services in Dallas, TX: https://mosaicservices.org/donate/ - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on ...
21:17:31 2022-09-01
Stacie and Alicia from the Trashy Divorces podcast join Abby to talk about ethical polyamory, healthy relationship dynamics, and expecting more from your love life. Check out their podcast below and tune in to hear them break down this week's break up! - ...
21:31:33 2022-08-30
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21:18:29 2022-08-25
[SCROLL FOR CW] - Ex-Mormon therapist Jenny Morrow reacts to S2E4 and let's us in on what people leaving the LDS church struggle with after leaving. She talks about rules for dating, complications when one spouse wants to leave the church, divorce, and se...
21:38:56 2022-08-23
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21:35:38 2022-08-18
[SCROLL FOR TIMESTAMPS] Jacqueline Trumbull from Ari's season of 'The Bachelor' reacts to this week's episode. She recently cancelled her wedding 2 weeks before the big day, so she came on to talk about her own experience and how she related/didn't relate...
21:28:04 2022-08-16
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21:36:04 2022-08-11
Lily Womble from Date Brazen joins us to break down some of S2E2's key points and empower you to become "your own matchmaker" in this episode!  - Learn more about Lily: https://www.datebrazen.com/about-lily - Follow Lily on IG: https://www.instagram....
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